Love -the first principle of life

 In love, we not only find ourselves, but also get a paragraph that is sufficient to comfort this life. No matter how long they can accompany ourselves or ends in what way they can end, we deserve gratitude and blessings.

Last weekend, I watched a beautiful country film, "Toscana under the sun", telling a middle -aged marry female writer Francis in the United States. When traveling in Italy, I bought a 300 -year -old country house for more than 300 years. In the process, I also experienced the story of repairing my life.

I heard this film released in 2003, so when I saw the title of the film appeared in the push of the public account content, I did not hesitate to search and watch the movie. Although it was a film 20 years ago, But the love and tenderness conveyed by the film will not be out of date. I don't want to spoil too much, just write the most moved set of me.

If Francis, which is traveling in Italy,, has the guidance of God on the way and discovered an old house. She called a tourist bus and took her luggage to break into this old -fashioned house. As a result, the hostess of the house, one Earl is selling the house with a lawyer. The buyer is a couple. Because of the break in Francis, the couple agreed to a higher price, but the Earl continued to add the price to double the price, and the couple left indignantly. The reality of the count who seemed to be unbelievable was that she was reluctant to sell this ancestral house. Naturally, the money in Francis's hands was not enough to pay the price. When Francis regretted leaving, a dramatic scene happened. A pigeon flying in the room was on Francis's head. Well, the Count confirmed that this is God's will, because in Italy, pigeon dung represents the advent of good luck, so he sold the house to Francis, witnessing the handsome and calm middle -aged male lawyer of the whole process helped to handle all procedures, and beyond exceeding the procedures, and beyond the way Dyedon help Francis to find the decoration team.

In the interaction between Francis and the lawyer, it is easy to think that Romantick's love will occur between the two. It does explain this possibility after a separate conversation of each other. In this conversation, the lawyer said that there is a section of the Alps between Austrian and Italy called Semerin. It is a cliff that is unimaginable. The mountains are built on the rails and connected to Vienna and Venice, but before the train was opened, people built this railway because they knew that this day would appear. After talking about this, when the lawyer got up and left, he asked Francis not to be sad. If he continued to see her, he would have to dedicate his love to her, and he never was unfaithful to his wife Essence

This is the first time in the plot to explain the identity of the lawyer's wife's room, and the atmosphere of the film is also transferred from the ambiguousness caused by the conversation. Emotional, instead of respecting the respect of this rare man, Mr. Mattii.

Later, as the two were looking forward to each other after holding the boundaries, Francis began to really invest and enjoy the basis of life under the sun of Tuscana. The latter plot was very exciting. Francis encountered rollerar -like love, harvesting and harvesting and harvesting Friendship among members of the decoration team, as well as the affection of across blood.

In short, in my opinion, Mr. Martini's words about the railway are like the finishing touch of this film, and Francis's desire in that conversation is finally realized. In my opinion, my spiritual writing is also the rail on the construction of Mr. Mattini, and it is a better path to the shop.

I think of the concept of "first sex". It comes from the concept of philosophy. It refers to the basic premise or assumption that cannot be proven or proven. Musk admires the first principle of firstality because he uses this principle to think, not analogy reasoning, because the analogy reasoning is relatively easy, for example, because this matter is doing so, it is successful, so I have to do it like this; The first principle is to attribute things to the most basic truth, such as what we completely believe in, or almost believe in truth, and then start from these things as the origin.

I know how good the use of the first principle of the first sex, such as my professional, image and shape, not to challenge me from aesthetic aspects. For example, how to match clothing is good -looking or how to make a person beautiful, but let me make them beautiful, but let people make it beautiful, but let people make them beautiful, but let people make them beautiful. Wearing the inner world of this person, letting the external style endorses this person. This is the pursuit of the courage to explore themselves. Can serve such people in the future.

At the same time, I also understand that the principles of the first sex will help us to reshape our lives. When we realize that there is a bug in our lives, we can use the first principle to think. The parts of the experience and rules help us aside these burdens, jump out of the framework, return to the essence of things, and see the real problem. This may be a long process, because sometimes, we can't do anything except to perceive (see the previous article), but please believe that if you have enough courage and sincerity to become yourself, you will eventually reach your wish because This is in line with the principles of firstality.

In this film, I also see the key role played by the first principle of the first nature of Francis's life. This first principle is related to the nature of life -love is the essence of the drama. With Francis in the moment, to experience the beauty of love, he also faces and endure the pain that follows, and he is not afraid of trauma. He chooses to believe in love and help people around you to achieve the choice of love.

When love becomes the first principle of life, we will not be afraid of being beyond the most rustic moral law, and the so -called good, bad right or wrong criteria caused by human opinion, and we will understand that love means truthfulness. Look at everything. For people, the greatest love is to allow themselves to become themselves and allow others to become others. This allows us to turn over the mountains, and will involve a river, there will be intersecting, there will be separation, there will be reunion, there will be reunion, there will be reunion, there will be reunion. There will be the next separation, all of which are to make us go close to this goal independently.

As long as you don't lose your hope for this goal, no matter how small your efforts are, it is worthy of affirmation. No matter how major mistakes, we can be forgiven, because we come to this game, which is a response to love. In this sense, in this sense, in this sense, in this sense, everyone in this sense, in this sense, in this sense, in this sense, in this sense, in this sense, in this sense, everyone in this sense, from everyone in everyone, everyone, from everyone, everyone On the nodes of the raw, the themselves are all worthy of and deserved.

Friends, when you can see here patiently, I believe you are like me, they are willing to continue to explore the truth of their lives, and hope to better live out of my fellow travelers. If these articles I write Even inspiration, then I got a happy! Bless you can see the road under your feet more clearly, walking on it gentle and firmly!

Bless you all a beautiful day!

Last weekend, I watched a beautiful country film, "Toscana under the sun", telling a middle -aged marry female writer Francis in the United States. When traveling in Italy, I bought a 300 -year -old country house for more than 300 years. In the process, I also experienced the story of repairing my life.

I heard this film released in 2003, so when I saw the title of the film appeared in the push of the public account content, I did not hesitate to search and watch the movie. Although it was a film 20 years ago, But the love and tenderness conveyed by the film will not be out of date. I don't want to spoil too much, just write the most moved set of me.

If Francis, which is traveling in Italy,, has the guidance of God on the way and discovered an old house. She called a tourist bus and took her luggage to break into this old -fashioned house. As a result, the hostess of the house, one Earl is selling the house with a lawyer. The buyer is a couple. Because of the break in Francis, the couple agreed to a higher price, but the Earl continued to add the price to double the price, and the couple left indignantly. The reality of the count who seemed to be unbelievable was that she was reluctant to sell this ancestral house. Naturally, the money in Francis's hands was not enough to pay the price. When Francis regretted leaving, a dramatic scene happened. A pigeon flying in the room was on Francis's head. Well, the Count confirmed that this is God's will, because in Italy, pigeon dung represents the advent of good luck, so he sold the house to Francis, witnessing the handsome and calm middle -aged male lawyer of the whole process helped to handle all procedures, and beyond exceeding the procedures, and beyond the way Dyedon help Francis to find the decoration team.

In the interaction between Francis and the lawyer, it is easy to think that Romantick's love will occur between the two. It does explain this possibility after a separate conversation of each other. In this conversation, the lawyer said that there is a section of the Alps between Austrian and Italy called Semerin. It is a cliff that is unimaginable. The mountains are built on the rails and connected to Vienna and Venice, but before the train was opened, people built this railway because they knew that this day would appear. After talking about this, when the lawyer got up and left, he asked Francis not to be sad. If he continued to see her, he would have to dedicate his love to her, and he never was unfaithful to his wife Essence.

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Life is not just bland, but also needs to challenge yourself

 We are fortunate to live in a peaceful age. We are fortunate to choose the direction of hard work, but we need to pay some efforts.

When you are young, some people often say that it is true. I want to come now, this is the helpless language of the elderly, I don't know why it affects young people.

Those things we can remember and deeply remember are often bland things. Our brain prefers those things that are not plain.

I think that a person can grow faster with a constant self -breakthrough, always staying in the comfort zone. He cannot grow quickly.

When you adapt to a scene that cannot be adapted in the past, then you will change and become a master. I remember that I couldn't speak smoothly in the past, as if there was a force that suppressed my heart, for fear that going out would cause trouble.

I shouldn't be like this.

Usually, after this, people will not give the opportunity to cultivate, and they prefer to give the opportunity to those who can argue.

But my teacher, Teacher Xin, is a different teacher. He believes that if I don't give me a chance, I will never break through. Only by constantly impacting my sense of boundaries can I get greater improvement.

At a speech scene, there were about a hundred people under the stage. Teacher Xin talked on the stage. It was very skilled. I was hidden in everyone and had no sense of pressure.

Suddenly Teacher Xin shouted, what about the assistant? Where is the assistant? You also come to the stage to talk about five minutes.

At that time, my heart was so nervous that my heart was beating at a high speed. I never spoke on such an occasion. Isn't this driving the duck on the shelves? I think of running away quickly to avoid such tragedies.

Unexpectedly, Teacher Xin took me out, and then pulled me to the stage. I had to take the microphone of Teacher Xin as the last time. I didn't know what to say, but I just felt a blank brain. Until Teacher Xin came over and took the microphone, I heard Teacher Xin's voice again, and the tension in my heart calmed down.

I think it ’s shameful to Teacher Xin. I am very ashamed. Why did I be nervous to my stomach pain? Why is the brain blank? Why?

Afterwards, I didn't dare to see Teacher Xin, and a person was crying in the corner. I think I am too stupid, it is also a person, why is I not?

At this time, Teacher Xin came over and said to me repeatedly, this matter is not blame you. Then Teacher Xin shared his first experience on stage. It turned out that he was so nervous.

Teacher Xin's explanation made me tangled with liberation, not so uncomfortable.

Teacher Xin encourages that as long as you exercise more, speak more, and experience such opportunities for three to five times, you will speak smoothly. You have an extraordinary knowledge.

Teacher Xin's words made me re -ignite hope. I think Teacher Xin is right, because these are his personal experience. Only by experiencing unknown challenges can he activate his own potential and have higher ability in the process.

Those who are always too pitiful, and those who are unwilling to come out in the comfort zone are slowly, and even constantly degenerate.

Since then, I have become a crazy person. I don't miss any opportunity to express myself. Gradually, I am more and more proficient. Finally, I have reached the point where I am united with the field. I do n’t need any manuscripts, as long as I stand on my stand There, I seem to be able to feel the flow of dojo, and I can even feel that those words will become very energy when they go out.

This feeling is so amazing. I thought about myself at the beginning. I suddenly understood Teacher Xin’s good intentions. He thought I was capable, but in the past, I never walked out of the comfort zone. He pulled me out of the comfort zone. , I have sublimated my cognition,

Pain is just short, and happiness has become my long -term state.

From then on, my vision of talents has also changed. I finally did not look like those people did not look, but we did not give them enough opportunities to show. Their potential may be great. We miss it will be a huge loss.

Life is definitely not bland. When we are talking about this, we usually cover up a protective film for our ignorance and incompetence, to act for us not willing to act, lazy to act, and create a grand reasons.

Since then, I no longer let laziness occupy my body and fill my soul. I treat laziness as a cockroach that hates. Sometimes I drive them away, sometimes stepping on them directly, and then rushing into the sewer.

When I found that laziness left my body and soul, I became more efficient and more happy. I can feel the warmth of the sun, the beauty in the rain, and the surprise of the moment of flowers. My world is changing. Fortunately colorful.

When I see those acute people, brutal people, and self -complaining people, I know that their heads are lacking wisdom sunshine. Their world is full of withered weeds and stinky ditches.

Of course, I am not willing to blame them because let them clean the weeds in their souls. They will think that I feel troublesome, they will seriously exclude my kindness and blame me for gazettes.

This is where the spring breeze cannot be blown. In their world, there is no rules of the real world. They give their world a lock. Although they are rusty, they are not willing to let anyone get closer.

I seem to perceive the meaning of life. When I take a deep breath and perceive the Guanghua of life, I find that this is a quiet power space. Just like what the ancient Chinese said, a person who never knew how to appreciate and did not know how to be quiet, his wisdom must be shallow or even ignorant. Silent with self -cultivation and frugality, the ancients do not deceive me.

The years may be old, or we are only ourselves. Communicating and communicating with those who are positive and positive, we will find that in this process, our lives will become more and more pure and become a wealthy person.

Not every flower will have results, but its beauty adds wonderful endlessness to the world. This wonderful endless requires us to enjoy it quietly until we see a beautiful world appearing in our minds.

Even though we work hard for the time being, we should not abandon ourselves. We should firmly believe that we are just in the quantification stage. As long as we persist, we will eventually achieve greater success.

Tiandao rewards, as a creature in nature, we should have those excellent qualities, discover the beauty of the world, and add a better giving back the world. This seems to be far away, but it is very close. As long as we dare to cross the barrier of cognition, we will find that the world is beautiful everywhere, and those things that make us are actually just self -illusion.

Since then, I have become a crazy person. I don't miss any opportunity to express myself. Gradually, I am more and more proficient. Finally, I have reached the point where I am united with the field. I do n’t need any manuscripts, as long as I stand on my stand There, I seem to be able to feel the flow of dojo, and I can even feel that those words will become very energy when they go out.

This feeling is so amazing. I thought about myself at the beginning. I suddenly understood Teacher Xin’s good intentions. He thought I was capable, but in the past, I never walked out of the comfort zone. He pulled me out of the comfort zone. , I have sublimated my cognition,

Pain is just short, and happiness has become my long -term state.

From then on, my vision of talents has also changed. I finally did not look like those people did not look, but we did not give them enough opportunities to show. Their potential may be great. We miss it will be a huge loss.

Life is definitely not bland. When we are talking about this, we usually cover up a protective film for our ignorance and incompetence, to act for us not willing to act, lazy to act, and create a grand reasons.

Since then, I no longer let laziness occupy my body and fill my soul. I treat laziness as a cockroach that hates. Sometimes I drive them away, sometimes stepping on them directly, and then rushing into the sewer.

When I found that laziness left my body and soul, I became more efficient and more happy. I can feel the warmth of the sun, the beauty in the rain, and the surprise of the moment of flowers. My world is changing. Fortunately colorful.

When I see those acute people, brutal people, and self -complaining people, I know that their heads are lacking wisdom sunshine. Their world is full of withered weeds and stinky ditches.

Of course, I am not willing to blame them because let them clean the weeds in their souls. They will think that I feel troublesome, they will seriously exclude my kindness and blame me for gazettes.

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No longer

 Love, make everything restore the original, so that we are no longer the same

Yesterday, I started to organize professional information. For the next step I was going to start the theoretical system, the theoretical system of the personal image style work structure. In the process, my emotions suddenly lowered. Then Waste the time, so I transferred to the content of Fan Deng's reading club, so I spent a day. I faintly feel that my state has some connection with the content of self -discipline, especially the principle of loyalty to facts.

Whenever I enter the facts, I seem to have a mode of escape. I used to find that when I found that I treated my parents with the mentality of the victim. At that time, I only thought that filial piety to my parents, and loved them just to be a cow to serve them. At that time, my love for love was to promote my mind and others, and to continuously expand my self -boundaries and realize their willingness to improve myself. Knowing, and this is the point of view of Dr. Parker in Chapter 2 of "The Road that few people go".

It can be said that I didn't know how to love my parents at that time, and I didn't know how to love myself. I "healed" myself as a elixir to "heal" myself, and also rejected my parents' consideration of my body. The obstruction of spiritual pursuit. So when I saw this fact, I didn't know how to do it. At that time, I was studying the courses of life counseling online. I put it in most of the time to escape the relationship with my parents, but it really caused the relationship between us to happen. What changed is the glasses that I start to really remove the victim's perspective, let go of my religious burden, feel the relationship with my parents, and try to create more opportunities to truly accompany them, such as walking together, chatting, discovering them The flash point on the body is given affirmation and encouragement. At the same time, we also face the parts that we need to improve, communicate, and constantly adjust themselves, and also affirm their changes.

When I went to the Beihai to spend winter with my parents the year before, I saw Dr. Parker's series of psychological works in a cafe. I borrowed those books. After returning home, I bought this platinum upgraded version of the "Few people walking. Road.

When I recalled these, while grateful, I was relieved of my situation yesterday. The more you care about, the less difficult to relax at the beginning, and the real investment will change, and this situation will change and will move freely. In the professional aspect, I have prepared for a long time, but because I was subject to the wrong concept in the past, I greatly limited my feelings and creativity. OK, but really start to present the professionalism in the way you understand, and process the complicated information in yourself, you need to focus and invest very much. All I need to do is to quietly and act.

In addition, I also realize that I am constantly learning new things. Even what Xiao Hongshu is concerned about the knowledge, psychology, spiritual, scientific, and healthy fields I am interested in. At the same time as the expansion of the cognitive border, his own cognitive system also brings a problem, that is, the time management will become relaxed, which will impact the main line task. This is why I will be in blame. From this, I also saw the reason why I jumped in the P and J of INFP and INFJ. When my task and goal were clear, I would show the clear and active force of the J people at that time, but once I am me If I get out of focus, I will be delayed because I want too much.

I wrote this today is also a combing of my current situation. When I keep moving forward with my perception of myself and look back after a while, this will also become a road signs of mental growth.

Next, I interpret a personal perspective of a few inspiring words in Chapter 2 of "The Road where few people go".

Because real love is an experience of expanding self, it is closely related to self -bounds. In the process of love, we feel that our soul extends infinitely and runs towards the beloved object. We are eager to nourish each other and hope that the other party can grow. Attracted by objects outside of self -bounds, it promotes us to impulse and wants to dedicate passion and even life to the other party. Psychologists call this state "spiritual attention".

For the long -term love of something, we have lived in a state of spiritual attention. Therefore, our self -boundaries began to extend. After extending to a certain degree, the boundaries of ourselves will be diluted. At this time, our minds will get it. Mature. With the progress of love, the difference between self and the world is becoming more and more blurred, and eventually let us integrate with the world.

The joy of true love, the longer time, can make us integrated with the universe. We call this situation "the combination of human nature and divinity, which is the unity of heaven and man."

I amolation and feel that I am an independent individual in the universe, and it is impossible to experience the harmony and unity of the universe.

From these few words, I see that love is not a supplement to feel good. If so, we will treat the object of love as the maintenance and possession of private property. Any other views and views to help us expand our boundaries and Nothing cannot enter this territory. Any point and target of any potential and possibilities of the object of love will be rejected by us. Once so, we and the objects we love will be "overwhelmed" because of solidification The thinking is like a person raised a small bottle of mineral water with both hands. At first, it might be easy, but in order to maintain this action, the longer the time, the more rigid muscles, and eventually they could only end.

If you do n’t realize that love is to promote yourself and others ’minds, expand self -bounds, and realize self -improvement, then our love will only pay attention to our own feelings, rather than the well -being of both parties. In this sense, love is love. Others, our relationship with the outside world has also projected how we look at ourselves.

Let's go back to the most basic point. The person you love is the person who considers the outside world, or the person you are attracted by you, and the soul is in line; Fortunately, but if TA can't meet your expectations, you will adjust yourself, and also communicate with TA to find a balance between the two? If TA does not give back, you allow the other party to be yourself, and are you still willing to choose to love?

When asking these questions, what I appeared in my mind was Jesus. The boundaries of his sacrifice love expanded, so that the person he loved and the person who responded to his love (love is to go in two -way. The doctor's book also expresses this), which has completed the transformation in love in life. What impressed me the most was Lao John, from a fisherman who was called Leizi (hot personality) into the apostle I wrote the book that I think is the most romantic gospel book. This is the power of love.

The same is true of choosing a career. There is a saying that love can reach the long time. Even if you choose a talent in the field of talents, you cannot get up from the beginning. In the end, we must all be a lifelong learner to reach. In my understanding, only those who constantly challenge their cognitions, constantly learn to update themselves, and constantly practice those who have learned, can they have the qualifications of the teacher.

If life is a gift, in my imagination, it is like a Russian set baby. We constantly need to peel off the external packaging and the shell on the baby can be found from the innermost; then, we still need to keep constantly constantly Then put on the new shell, package new packaging, and give back to others as a new gift. The process itself is the wonderful reincarnation and cycle of life. It will witness the process of unity in the universe.

Please do n’t waste your gifts of your life, bravely remove the packaging, break the shell to meet your real yourself; do n’t be afraid to enter the next stage again, pack yourself as a gift for giving back, because you are no longer the same!

In addition, I also realize that I am constantly learning new things. Even what Xiao Hongshu is concerned about the knowledge, psychology, spiritual, scientific, and healthy fields I am interested in. At the same time as the expansion of the cognitive border, his own cognitive system also brings a problem, that is, the time management will become relaxed, which will impact the main line task. This is why I will be in blame. From this, I also saw the reason why I jumped in the P and J of INFP and INFJ. When my task and goal were clear, I would show the clear and active force of the J people at that time, but once I am me If I get out of focus, I will be delayed because I want too much.

I wrote this today is also a combing of my current situation. When I keep moving forward with my perception of myself and look back after a while, this will also become a road signs of mental growth.

Next, I interpret a personal perspective of a few inspiring words in Chapter 2 of "The Road where few people go".

Because real love is an experience of expanding self, it is closely related to self -bounds. In the process of love, we feel that our soul extends infinitely and runs towards the beloved object. We are eager to nourish each other and hope that the other party can grow. Attracted by objects outside of self -bounds, it promotes us to impulse and wants to dedicate passion and even life to the other party. Psychologists call this state "spiritual attention".

For the long -term love of something, we have lived in a state of spiritual attention. Therefore, our self -boundaries began to extend. After extending to a certain degree, the boundaries of ourselves will be diluted. At this time, our minds will get it. Mature. With the progress of love, the difference between self and the world is becoming more and more blurred, and eventually let us integrate with the world.

The joy of true love, the longer time, can make us integrated with the universe. We call this situation "the combination of human nature and divinity, which is the unity of heaven and man.

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Qingming feelings

 In the Qingming season, it is suitable for organizing our relationship with the family.

In the past two days, I came to the field with Mi Friends to say that I would walk and go to Wuyuan, Jiangxi to enjoy the beautiful scenery through the Qingming holiday.

These two days of play time are very compact. I went to several ancient villages in the chartered car. Last night I watched the real performance of my hometown in the dream in the rainy night, enjoyed the influence of the Huizhou culture. Tiring is natural, but also very enjoyable.

Just like going to an unfamiliar environment, I think the most important thing for reading is to let go of the judgment, follow the author, look at it from the perspective of TA, and feel to continue to expand the boundaries of ourselves. In the same way, Dr. Parker mentioned the point of view in the book "Little People Go".

I learned a method in spiritual healing two days ago, and created twice, similar to the renovation of old clothes. In my understanding, this creation is to speak out the dreams that I can't put in my heart or the unreasonable experiences that have happened in the past. Based on this, use writing or performing to continue writing the plot that promotes the growth of myself. Development, this process will play a role in healing.

I believe that we have all experienced many such dreams or experiences. In those scenes, because our unconsciousness will be in trouble, we do not know how to face it; in real experience, we may fight or escape the way to ourselves or others. Dreams are also projected to our real life to a certain extent. Therefore, those dreams and events that are particularly impressed with themselves will become a clue, which can help us know and understand the real motivation of our reactions, and then use second creation to practice ourselves, open the knot, make us so that we can make us, so that we can make us, so that we can make us. I have a deeper understanding of myself, so that in real life, if you experience the same situation, you can move freely instead of being controlled by the environment and others.

I thought of my family again (seeing silent love with the family). After I went to school with my parents at the age of 7, my family returned to the countryside. When my mother and I visited her in the country, I was banned from getting close -up with her. I remember the scene where I crawled to her knees and was reprimanded by my mother, but I couldn't tell whether this scene happened. Because of the guilt in my family, I wanted to be close and dare not get close, so I fantasized my mother's reprimand.

When I really faced and dealt with my childhood, it was many years later. I also think it is the second creation of my unjust family. I have stepped out of the sequelae of not being a thief for so many years. This secondary creation is to apologize to the family I have left in my heart. Her mistakes, and also told her because of her, I was learning to be honest and upright. So far, I believe that because of my response to her, I can be healed, restored, and rebuilt after the trauma of the soul. Of course, this process is also my response to those who constantly nourish me.

We need to choose more time to be nourished by love and warmth in life, making them part of themselves, which also requires self -discipline. When we get along with others, we must have the right awareness. We are all people. We have light and dark side at the same time. The more closer people are, the easier it is to see the dark side of the other party, but if we only stare at this Noodles can't take the light face of the other party by ourselves, but we don't know that we are staring at the part of the other party. It is also the projection of our own dark side; vice versa, this is why love seems to have some magical magic. Because the filter of love enlarge the light of each other, the other side cannot be seen. If you have to have such an objective understanding of yourself, you will learn more and more about accepting homework. With this foundation, we can continue to walk on that mature road.

In the Qingming season, it is particularly suitable for my loved ones. I found the prayer of the late famous psychotherapist, Better Hyllange about the ancestor of the family. Friends who need it can recite and feel the state of my mind.

Hylla's ancestor prayer

I am your descendants (my own name).

Thank you for passing me your life!

To this end, you pay the corresponding price.

You may have experienced war, disaster, disease, poverty and pain ...

In this regard, I expressed deep respect and gratitude!

I want to mention it in particular, for some reason,

The ancestors who were excluded or were forgotten ...

For example: those killer or killed,

And those ancestors who died or were abandoned,

All the ancestors who have been excluded or have been forgotten ...

The family will always love you,

You will always be a member of the family,

In my heart, you have your position.

Thank you for your contribution to your family,

May your mind rest in peace.

Dear ancestor,

I will make good use of my life,

Do something special to commemorate you and glory you.

If there is a chance, I will also pass my life,

As you do.

Thank you, my beloved ancestor,

Thank you for your protection,

I will bring all the blessings and love of the family,

Come to live my life.

Dear ancestor, please bless me,

Please allow me to live out of myself,

Please allow me to live differently from you,

Please allow me to get out of my own path,

Please allow me to live out of myself to glorify you.

Please bless me, get health, success and wealth,

Have a happy relationship ... ...

I read this prayer in front of the desk loudly. When I read the ancestors who were excluded or forgotten by us, I choked. In the past It also resisted the dark side of the family and was unwilling to be bound by the dark spirit in the family, but I forgot that I had greater potential inside me. I could use these to improve myself, affect others, and create a new family history. In addition, part of the latter part is only written to the ancestors, it is also written to the current relatives and friends -please allow me to live differently with you!

I seemed to see the pine nuts in "The Life of the Disdictable Pine Origraphy", the gold in "Kind Gold", although it is a character in the movie, but their existence reminds me that in any case, do not live for others, do not live for others, do not live for others, and do not live for others. Don't live in the eyes of others, don't give up the journey to explore yourself, and try to live yourself. This is the best comfort to the ancestors, especially those who have come to achieve this goal.

I believe that we have all experienced many such dreams or experiences. In those scenes, because our unconsciousness will be in trouble, we do not know how to face it; in real experience, we may fight or escape the way to ourselves or others. Dreams are also projected to our real life to a certain extent. Therefore, those dreams and events that are particularly impressed with themselves will become a clue, which can help us know and understand the real motivation of our reactions, and then use second creation to practice ourselves, open the knot, make us so that we can make us, so that we can make us, so that we can make us. I have a deeper understanding of myself, so that in real life, if you experience the same situation, you can move freely instead of being controlled by the environment and others.

I thought of my family again (seeing silent love with the family). After I went to school with my parents at the age of 7, my family returned to the countryside. When my mother and I visited her in the country, I was banned from getting close -up with her. I remember the scene where I crawled to her knees and was reprimanded by my mother, but I couldn't tell whether this scene happened. Because of the guilt in my family, I wanted to be close and dare not get close, so I fantasized my mother's reprimand.

When I really faced and dealt with my childhood, it was many years later. I also think it is the second creation of my unjust family. I have stepped out of the sequelae of not being a thief for so many years. This secondary creation is to apologize to the family I have left in my heart. Her mistakes, and also told her because of her, I was learning to be honest and upright. So far, I believe that because of my response to her, I can be healed, restored, and rebuilt after the trauma of the soul. Of course, this process is also my response to those who constantly nourish me.

We need to choose more time to be nourished by love and warmth in life, making them part of themselves, which also requires self -discipline. When we get along with others, we must have the right awareness. We are all people. We have light and dark side at the same time. The more closer people are, the easier it is to see the dark side of the other party, but if we only stare at this Noodles can't take the light face of the other party by ourselves, but we don't know that we are staring at the part of the other party. It is also the projection of our own dark side; vice versa, this is why love seems to have some magical magic. Because the filter of love enlarge the light of each other, the other side cannot be seen. If you have to have such an objective understanding of yourself, you will learn more and more about accepting homework. With this foundation, we can continue to walk on that mature road.

In the Qingming season, it is particularly suitable for my loved ones. I found the prayer of the late famous psychotherapist, Better Hyllange about the ancestor of the family. Friends who need it can recite and feel the state of my mind.

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