No longer

 Love, make everything restore the original, so that we are no longer the same

Yesterday, I started to organize professional information. For the next step I was going to start the theoretical system, the theoretical system of the personal image style work structure. In the process, my emotions suddenly lowered. Then Waste the time, so I transferred to the content of Fan Deng's reading club, so I spent a day. I faintly feel that my state has some connection with the content of self -discipline, especially the principle of loyalty to facts.

Whenever I enter the facts, I seem to have a mode of escape. I used to find that when I found that I treated my parents with the mentality of the victim. At that time, I only thought that filial piety to my parents, and loved them just to be a cow to serve them. At that time, my love for love was to promote my mind and others, and to continuously expand my self -boundaries and realize their willingness to improve myself. Knowing, and this is the point of view of Dr. Parker in Chapter 2 of "The Road that few people go".

It can be said that I didn't know how to love my parents at that time, and I didn't know how to love myself. I "healed" myself as a elixir to "heal" myself, and also rejected my parents' consideration of my body. The obstruction of spiritual pursuit. So when I saw this fact, I didn't know how to do it. At that time, I was studying the courses of life counseling online. I put it in most of the time to escape the relationship with my parents, but it really caused the relationship between us to happen. What changed is the glasses that I start to really remove the victim's perspective, let go of my religious burden, feel the relationship with my parents, and try to create more opportunities to truly accompany them, such as walking together, chatting, discovering them The flash point on the body is given affirmation and encouragement. At the same time, we also face the parts that we need to improve, communicate, and constantly adjust themselves, and also affirm their changes.

When I went to the Beihai to spend winter with my parents the year before, I saw Dr. Parker's series of psychological works in a cafe. I borrowed those books. After returning home, I bought this platinum upgraded version of the "Few people walking. Road.

When I recalled these, while grateful, I was relieved of my situation yesterday. The more you care about, the less difficult to relax at the beginning, and the real investment will change, and this situation will change and will move freely. In the professional aspect, I have prepared for a long time, but because I was subject to the wrong concept in the past, I greatly limited my feelings and creativity. OK, but really start to present the professionalism in the way you understand, and process the complicated information in yourself, you need to focus and invest very much. All I need to do is to quietly and act.

In addition, I also realize that I am constantly learning new things. Even what Xiao Hongshu is concerned about the knowledge, psychology, spiritual, scientific, and healthy fields I am interested in. At the same time as the expansion of the cognitive border, his own cognitive system also brings a problem, that is, the time management will become relaxed, which will impact the main line task. This is why I will be in blame. From this, I also saw the reason why I jumped in the P and J of INFP and INFJ. When my task and goal were clear, I would show the clear and active force of the J people at that time, but once I am me If I get out of focus, I will be delayed because I want too much.

I wrote this today is also a combing of my current situation. When I keep moving forward with my perception of myself and look back after a while, this will also become a road signs of mental growth.

Next, I interpret a personal perspective of a few inspiring words in Chapter 2 of "The Road where few people go".

Because real love is an experience of expanding self, it is closely related to self -bounds. In the process of love, we feel that our soul extends infinitely and runs towards the beloved object. We are eager to nourish each other and hope that the other party can grow. Attracted by objects outside of self -bounds, it promotes us to impulse and wants to dedicate passion and even life to the other party. Psychologists call this state "spiritual attention".

For the long -term love of something, we have lived in a state of spiritual attention. Therefore, our self -boundaries began to extend. After extending to a certain degree, the boundaries of ourselves will be diluted. At this time, our minds will get it. Mature. With the progress of love, the difference between self and the world is becoming more and more blurred, and eventually let us integrate with the world.

The joy of true love, the longer time, can make us integrated with the universe. We call this situation "the combination of human nature and divinity, which is the unity of heaven and man."

I amolation and feel that I am an independent individual in the universe, and it is impossible to experience the harmony and unity of the universe.

From these few words, I see that love is not a supplement to feel good. If so, we will treat the object of love as the maintenance and possession of private property. Any other views and views to help us expand our boundaries and Nothing cannot enter this territory. Any point and target of any potential and possibilities of the object of love will be rejected by us. Once so, we and the objects we love will be "overwhelmed" because of solidification The thinking is like a person raised a small bottle of mineral water with both hands. At first, it might be easy, but in order to maintain this action, the longer the time, the more rigid muscles, and eventually they could only end.

If you do n’t realize that love is to promote yourself and others ’minds, expand self -bounds, and realize self -improvement, then our love will only pay attention to our own feelings, rather than the well -being of both parties. In this sense, love is love. Others, our relationship with the outside world has also projected how we look at ourselves.

Let's go back to the most basic point. The person you love is the person who considers the outside world, or the person you are attracted by you, and the soul is in line; Fortunately, but if TA can't meet your expectations, you will adjust yourself, and also communicate with TA to find a balance between the two? If TA does not give back, you allow the other party to be yourself, and are you still willing to choose to love?

When asking these questions, what I appeared in my mind was Jesus. The boundaries of his sacrifice love expanded, so that the person he loved and the person who responded to his love (love is to go in two -way. The doctor's book also expresses this), which has completed the transformation in love in life. What impressed me the most was Lao John, from a fisherman who was called Leizi (hot personality) into the apostle I wrote the book that I think is the most romantic gospel book. This is the power of love.

The same is true of choosing a career. There is a saying that love can reach the long time. Even if you choose a talent in the field of talents, you cannot get up from the beginning. In the end, we must all be a lifelong learner to reach. In my understanding, only those who constantly challenge their cognitions, constantly learn to update themselves, and constantly practice those who have learned, can they have the qualifications of the teacher.

If life is a gift, in my imagination, it is like a Russian set baby. We constantly need to peel off the external packaging and the shell on the baby can be found from the innermost; then, we still need to keep constantly constantly Then put on the new shell, package new packaging, and give back to others as a new gift. The process itself is the wonderful reincarnation and cycle of life. It will witness the process of unity in the universe.

Please do n’t waste your gifts of your life, bravely remove the packaging, break the shell to meet your real yourself; do n’t be afraid to enter the next stage again, pack yourself as a gift for giving back, because you are no longer the same!

In addition, I also realize that I am constantly learning new things. Even what Xiao Hongshu is concerned about the knowledge, psychology, spiritual, scientific, and healthy fields I am interested in. At the same time as the expansion of the cognitive border, his own cognitive system also brings a problem, that is, the time management will become relaxed, which will impact the main line task. This is why I will be in blame. From this, I also saw the reason why I jumped in the P and J of INFP and INFJ. When my task and goal were clear, I would show the clear and active force of the J people at that time, but once I am me If I get out of focus, I will be delayed because I want too much.

I wrote this today is also a combing of my current situation. When I keep moving forward with my perception of myself and look back after a while, this will also become a road signs of mental growth.

Next, I interpret a personal perspective of a few inspiring words in Chapter 2 of "The Road where few people go".

Because real love is an experience of expanding self, it is closely related to self -bounds. In the process of love, we feel that our soul extends infinitely and runs towards the beloved object. We are eager to nourish each other and hope that the other party can grow. Attracted by objects outside of self -bounds, it promotes us to impulse and wants to dedicate passion and even life to the other party. Psychologists call this state "spiritual attention".

For the long -term love of something, we have lived in a state of spiritual attention. Therefore, our self -boundaries began to extend. After extending to a certain degree, the boundaries of ourselves will be diluted. At this time, our minds will get it. Mature. With the progress of love, the difference between self and the world is becoming more and more blurred, and eventually let us integrate with the world.

The joy of true love, the longer time, can make us integrated with the universe. We call this situation "the combination of human nature and divinity, which is the unity of heaven and man.