Qingming feelings

 In the Qingming season, it is suitable for organizing our relationship with the family.

In the past two days, I came to the field with Mi Friends to say that I would walk and go to Wuyuan, Jiangxi to enjoy the beautiful scenery through the Qingming holiday.

These two days of play time are very compact. I went to several ancient villages in the chartered car. Last night I watched the real performance of my hometown in the dream in the rainy night, enjoyed the influence of the Huizhou culture. Tiring is natural, but also very enjoyable.

Just like going to an unfamiliar environment, I think the most important thing for reading is to let go of the judgment, follow the author, look at it from the perspective of TA, and feel to continue to expand the boundaries of ourselves. In the same way, Dr. Parker mentioned the point of view in the book "Little People Go".

I learned a method in spiritual healing two days ago, and created twice, similar to the renovation of old clothes. In my understanding, this creation is to speak out the dreams that I can't put in my heart or the unreasonable experiences that have happened in the past. Based on this, use writing or performing to continue writing the plot that promotes the growth of myself. Development, this process will play a role in healing.

I believe that we have all experienced many such dreams or experiences. In those scenes, because our unconsciousness will be in trouble, we do not know how to face it; in real experience, we may fight or escape the way to ourselves or others. Dreams are also projected to our real life to a certain extent. Therefore, those dreams and events that are particularly impressed with themselves will become a clue, which can help us know and understand the real motivation of our reactions, and then use second creation to practice ourselves, open the knot, make us so that we can make us, so that we can make us, so that we can make us. I have a deeper understanding of myself, so that in real life, if you experience the same situation, you can move freely instead of being controlled by the environment and others.

I thought of my family again (seeing silent love with the family). After I went to school with my parents at the age of 7, my family returned to the countryside. When my mother and I visited her in the country, I was banned from getting close -up with her. I remember the scene where I crawled to her knees and was reprimanded by my mother, but I couldn't tell whether this scene happened. Because of the guilt in my family, I wanted to be close and dare not get close, so I fantasized my mother's reprimand.

When I really faced and dealt with my childhood, it was many years later. I also think it is the second creation of my unjust family. I have stepped out of the sequelae of not being a thief for so many years. This secondary creation is to apologize to the family I have left in my heart. Her mistakes, and also told her because of her, I was learning to be honest and upright. So far, I believe that because of my response to her, I can be healed, restored, and rebuilt after the trauma of the soul. Of course, this process is also my response to those who constantly nourish me.

We need to choose more time to be nourished by love and warmth in life, making them part of themselves, which also requires self -discipline. When we get along with others, we must have the right awareness. We are all people. We have light and dark side at the same time. The more closer people are, the easier it is to see the dark side of the other party, but if we only stare at this Noodles can't take the light face of the other party by ourselves, but we don't know that we are staring at the part of the other party. It is also the projection of our own dark side; vice versa, this is why love seems to have some magical magic. Because the filter of love enlarge the light of each other, the other side cannot be seen. If you have to have such an objective understanding of yourself, you will learn more and more about accepting homework. With this foundation, we can continue to walk on that mature road.

In the Qingming season, it is particularly suitable for my loved ones. I found the prayer of the late famous psychotherapist, Better Hyllange about the ancestor of the family. Friends who need it can recite and feel the state of my mind.

Hylla's ancestor prayer

I am your descendants (my own name).

Thank you for passing me your life!

To this end, you pay the corresponding price.

You may have experienced war, disaster, disease, poverty and pain ...

In this regard, I expressed deep respect and gratitude!

I want to mention it in particular, for some reason,

The ancestors who were excluded or were forgotten ...

For example: those killer or killed,

And those ancestors who died or were abandoned,

All the ancestors who have been excluded or have been forgotten ...

The family will always love you,

You will always be a member of the family,

In my heart, you have your position.

Thank you for your contribution to your family,

May your mind rest in peace.

Dear ancestor,

I will make good use of my life,

Do something special to commemorate you and glory you.

If there is a chance, I will also pass my life,

As you do.

Thank you, my beloved ancestor,

Thank you for your protection,

I will bring all the blessings and love of the family,

Come to live my life.

Dear ancestor, please bless me,

Please allow me to live out of myself,

Please allow me to live differently from you,

Please allow me to get out of my own path,

Please allow me to live out of myself to glorify you.

Please bless me, get health, success and wealth,

Have a happy relationship ... ...

I read this prayer in front of the desk loudly. When I read the ancestors who were excluded or forgotten by us, I choked. In the past It also resisted the dark side of the family and was unwilling to be bound by the dark spirit in the family, but I forgot that I had greater potential inside me. I could use these to improve myself, affect others, and create a new family history. In addition, part of the latter part is only written to the ancestors, it is also written to the current relatives and friends -please allow me to live differently with you!

I seemed to see the pine nuts in "The Life of the Disdictable Pine Origraphy", the gold in "Kind Gold", although it is a character in the movie, but their existence reminds me that in any case, do not live for others, do not live for others, do not live for others, and do not live for others. Don't live in the eyes of others, don't give up the journey to explore yourself, and try to live yourself. This is the best comfort to the ancestors, especially those who have come to achieve this goal.

I believe that we have all experienced many such dreams or experiences. In those scenes, because our unconsciousness will be in trouble, we do not know how to face it; in real experience, we may fight or escape the way to ourselves or others. Dreams are also projected to our real life to a certain extent. Therefore, those dreams and events that are particularly impressed with themselves will become a clue, which can help us know and understand the real motivation of our reactions, and then use second creation to practice ourselves, open the knot, make us so that we can make us, so that we can make us, so that we can make us. I have a deeper understanding of myself, so that in real life, if you experience the same situation, you can move freely instead of being controlled by the environment and others.

I thought of my family again (seeing silent love with the family). After I went to school with my parents at the age of 7, my family returned to the countryside. When my mother and I visited her in the country, I was banned from getting close -up with her. I remember the scene where I crawled to her knees and was reprimanded by my mother, but I couldn't tell whether this scene happened. Because of the guilt in my family, I wanted to be close and dare not get close, so I fantasized my mother's reprimand.

When I really faced and dealt with my childhood, it was many years later. I also think it is the second creation of my unjust family. I have stepped out of the sequelae of not being a thief for so many years. This secondary creation is to apologize to the family I have left in my heart. Her mistakes, and also told her because of her, I was learning to be honest and upright. So far, I believe that because of my response to her, I can be healed, restored, and rebuilt after the trauma of the soul. Of course, this process is also my response to those who constantly nourish me.

We need to choose more time to be nourished by love and warmth in life, making them part of themselves, which also requires self -discipline. When we get along with others, we must have the right awareness. We are all people. We have light and dark side at the same time. The more closer people are, the easier it is to see the dark side of the other party, but if we only stare at this Noodles can't take the light face of the other party by ourselves, but we don't know that we are staring at the part of the other party. It is also the projection of our own dark side; vice versa, this is why love seems to have some magical magic. Because the filter of love enlarge the light of each other, the other side cannot be seen. If you have to have such an objective understanding of yourself, you will learn more and more about accepting homework. With this foundation, we can continue to walk on that mature road.

In the Qingming season, it is particularly suitable for my loved ones. I found the prayer of the late famous psychotherapist, Better Hyllange about the ancestor of the family. Friends who need it can recite and feel the state of my mind.